MOMumental Book Giveaway and Sample Chapter (Deadline Extended)

Dear Readers,

MOMumental by Jennifer Grant has been a real pleasure to read even though I am not a mother. My husband and I were unable to have children because God had other plans for us. I know a lot of you are new moms. I would love to give you my copy of the book.

In the comment section, leave a paragraph why, as a new mom, you should have this book. New mom definition is anyone with their first child 1 years and younger. You can also leave a comment on behalf of someone whom you would like to recieve this book. In honors of Mothers Day this past Sunday, I will also include for the new mom a $5 Starbucks card. The new mom who gets the book and the card will also be invited to write a 750-word guest post after reading the book, MOMumental of what impacted her about it.

Interested? Deadline to leave a comment either for yourself or a new mom that you know is June 9. Winners announced June 10. For sample chapter, click here.

Love, Nikki

MOMumental Book Giveaway and Sample Chapter

Dear Readers,

MOMumental by Jennifer Grant has been a real pleasure to read even though I am not a mother. My husband and I were unable to have children because God had other plans for us. I know a lot of you are new moms. I would love to give you my copy of the book.

In the comment section, leave a paragraph why, as a new mom, you should have this book. New mom definition is anyone with their first child 1 years and younger. You can also leave a comment on behalf of someone whom you would like to recieve this book. In honors of Mothers Day this past Sunday, I will also include for the new mom a $5 Starbucks card. The new mom who gets the book and the card will also be invited to write a 750-word guest post after reading the book, MOMumental of what impacted her about it.

Interested? Deadline to leave a comment either for yourself or a new mom that you know is May 21. Winner’s announced May 22. For sample chapter, click here.

Love, Nikki

Jennifer Grant: The Funny, Broken, Love of Parenting

I click open a Facebook message. A friend has sent me a word search and tells me to let my eyes fall onto the image and take note of the first three words that I see. These are the words that best describe me, she promises.

I shrug, take a sip of coffee, and glance at it. “Funny,” “broken,” and “love” are my words.

When I close the message, I’m tempted for a moment to try again. What other words are hidden in that tangle of letters? Maybe on my second try, my eyes will land on a combination such as “smart,” “attractive,” and “successful.” (That would be nice.)

I don’t give it another try, though. The words I read the first time are just right considering how I’ve been spending my days for the past several months, thinking and writing about the family in which I am the wife and the mother and about my family of origin, where my story began.

Funny, broken, love – sounds like family.

MOMumental: Adventures in the Messy Art of Raising a Family is about my own missteps and small victories as a mother. Over the years, after beginning my parenting journey – as so many of us do – staggering under the weight of the expectations I had for myself, I’ve loosened up. I’ve come to learn that none of us is perfect. We all fail, misunderstand our kids sometimes, and mess up in countless ways. In MOMumental, I share stories of some of my “epic fails” as a mom.

The dire messages that flash on the computer or television screen that warn what a mother absolutely must or must not do no longer hold me tightly in their grasp. I now look at myself – and at other mothers – with less judgment, knowing that we all work it out, there is no manual for motherhood, and that the most important thing in raising kids is to be authentically connected with them.

(And a person can do that whether she serves microwaved macaroni and cheese to her kids for lunch every day or gives them homemade bread and a sampling of organic greens from her vegetable garden. Whether or not she homeschools them, uses “the family bed,” or exposes them to Mozart by the time they are six days old.)

I hope in sharing my own personal – and often quite cringe-worthy – story in MOMumental, other parents will show themselves, and other parents, more grace as we raise our children.

To me, those three words – funny, broken, and love – are great ones to reflect on when I think about the gift of family. To be able to enjoy our kids, repair our relationships with them when needed, and most of to love our children like crazy covers a multitude of parental crimes and misdemeanors.

Wishing you all the best in your own messy family-making adventures!

Thank you to Handlebar Marketing for allowing me to use Jennifer Grant’s post.

Jennifer Grant is mother to four children and author of Love You More: The Divine Surprise of Adopting My Daughter (2011). For more than a decade she wrote for papers in the Sun-Times newsgroup. Currently she freelances for the Chicago Tribune and is a regular contributor to hermeneutics, Christianity Today magazine’s blog for women. Grant is a Wheaton College graduate who received her master’s in English and Creative Writing from Southern Methodist University. She lives outside of Chicago, IL.

Book Review: MOMumental

First of all, I am not a mom. When I agreed to review MOMumental by Jennifer Grant, my husband said, “Well, you can’t review it from the point of view of a mom.” But MOMumental is so much more than what it seems and non-parents can enjoy it as well as new parents.

Jennifer Grant had dreams of becoming the perfect mom. Her broken childhood caused her to work hard towards making sure her children have an unmarred childhood. She spoke about idealizing a mom who lived across the street. Jennifer thought that mom was perfect until the mom told Jennifer that she wanted to race after her troubled teen son and beat him with a wooden spoon. That shocked Jennifer from her naïve views of parenthood.

MOMumental reads more like a memoir. I wouldn’t classify it as a parenting book. Moments of humor and laughter fill the pages of this book, and there is even a fun checklist for moms and paragraphs of wisdom in which a person can take away some good life lessons from it, like this one:

“Since that day, I’ve come to know the tone with which he spoke those words. David has a grudge-free and measured response to people he deems unreasonable—he shrugs them off. (I still have my learner’s permit in this practice, and too often the Nos of my critics swirl around in my mind, knocking me off-balance.)” – Page 26

Jennifer Grant writes a lovely story combining her past and present that everyone can relate to, laugh with, and find encouragement from, complete with the Cheerios and milk covering the front cover of the book. I give this book five Zwieback crackers.

*book given by publisher to review. The next two days I am hosting a blog tour complete with a sample chapter and a guest post. A special prize for new moms to be revealed on May 15.  Happy Mother’s Day!